Find an end-of-life doula — or become one

Dying well is not a document. It is a person who stays.

End-of-life doulas do the work nobody else is paid to do — the long conversations, the vigil, the family that cannot agree. Medicare pays them nothing. This is where families find them, and where doulas are building the footing to keep doing it: fair pay, benefits, and ownership of the thing they build, through a cooperative now forming.

Start with what you're carrying

What are you most afraid of right now?

No one wants to talk about this. We do. For yourself, or for someone you love: pick the one that's loudest — you can change it. Nothing you choose is saved or sent anywhere.

If you are in crisis or having thoughts of suicide, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline), any time, day or night.

Where to get it done

Three places to go next.

Each is part of the same network, and each does one job.

Your wishes

Put them in writing — CareGoals

Free, and the first answer takes a few minutes. Name who speaks for you and what matters most, in your own words. It stays on your device until you keep a copy in your ComfortCard or send it to someone you love.

The cost

Check what’s covered — ComfortCard

A free two-minute check of whether the care you’re paying for counts as medical care under IRS rules, so HSA or FSA dollars can pay for it. It tells you plainly when the answer is no.

Help at home

Find the help you qualify for — co-op.care

Many families qualify for public dollars to help care for someone they love and never claim them. co-op.care, a worker-owned care cooperative in Boulder, helps find them.

Looking for a person? Find an end-of-life doula ↓

In 15 seconds

Why a person, and how to find one.

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  1. Dying well is not a document. It is a person who stays.
  2. The work nobody else is paid to do. The long conversations. The vigil. The family that cannot agree.
  3. Medicare pays doulas nothing. So most doula work is cash. We say so plainly.
  4. Find a doula near you today. Field directories, and questions to ask each doula.
  5. Quality Death. Find an end-of-life doula, or become one. qualitydeath.com
The human doula · a marketplace, forming

When the moment asks for a person, a human doula is here too.

Some moments want a human hand — the vigil, the hardest family conversation, the last weeks. Quality Death is building a network of trained, in-person death doulas — real people who do this work for a living, and are paid and held like it matters. We’re bringing them on Boulder first. You don’t have to wait for it: doulas are working near you today.

For families

Find an end-of-life doula today

Most end-of-life doulas work independently, and the field keeps its own directories. Search where you live, and ask each doula about their training, what they charge, and what they do and don’t do.

INELDA directory →
National End-of-Life Doula Alliance →
Colorado End-of-Life Collaborative directory →

For doulas

Do this work — and own it

Not a gig platform skimming your fee. Doulas here are cooperative worker-owners: fair pay and equity in the network you help build. You keep the calling; the co-op carries the scheduling, billing, and paperwork.

Become a founding doula →

Honest about the money. Medicare and Medicaid pay nothing for doula care — so most doula work is cash, out of reach for the families who need it most. The plan is a fairer way: doulas employed through co-op.care, a cooperative now forming, and pre-tax HSA/FSA dollars where the care qualifies, case by case — built so the doula earns a living wage and you’re never gouged at the hardest time of your life.

Psychedelic-assisted care

For existential anxiety in terminal illness, the evidence is remarkable.

Two rigorous clinical trials at Johns Hopkins and NYU, with sustained follow-up, showed that a single session of psilocybin-assisted therapy produced substantial and enduring reductions in cancer-related depression and anxiety. That's not a fringe finding. That's 2016 peer-reviewed psychiatry, replicated independently.

Before you decide. These were small trials — the Johns Hopkins study had 51 people. The studies screened people out for a history of psychosis, some heart conditions, and some medications. A body that is frail, or on many medications, is exactly why it matters to work with a Clinical Facilitator — a facilitator who is also a licensed clinician.

Colorado is the front seat.

The Natural Medicine Health Act (Proposition 122, 2022) established a regulated framework for psilocybin-assisted therapy in licensed healing centers, with facilitators trained and credentialed under state rules. Colorado healing centers began opening in 2025, and most sessions happen there. Colorado’s rules also let a licensed facilitator hold the session at home, or in a hospice or care facility, for someone who receives or qualifies for palliative care, is in hospice, is homebound, or lives with a disability — with added safeguards. Not every facilitator offers this, so ask. (Rules as of September 2026.)

Quality Death helps you understand whether this path might fit and prepare the questions to bring to a licensed facilitator. Under Colorado’s rules, preparation, the session itself, and integration are the facilitator’s work. For doulas: where you fit, and the licensed path →

Where it’s available now: the state’s map of licensed healing centers, and a clinical trial recruiting at CU Anschutz for people with stage 3 or 4 cancer.

What this is not. Quality Death does not provide, prescribe, or sell psilocybin or any other psychedelic substance. We do not operate a healing center and we are not a medical practice. We help you think clearly, ask better questions, and find licensed clinicians and regulated healing centers where this care is lawfully available. Psilocybin remains a Schedule I controlled substance under federal law. Colorado decriminalized personal use for adults 21 and over, but selling it is illegal, and regulated services happen only through licensed facilitators.